I feel like a huge jerk-woman. Was I wrong to do this?

Tell him becasue may be that will get him out of being gay it possible nothing is impossible for sure anything can happen don' give up hope i think you should tell him and if your good friends it won;t affect your friendship you know, but you should tell him and it was kinda mean that you hurt him you should be honest and tel lthe truth usualyl i would wait for the right time but you should tel lhim before you lose your friendship good luck and ask him to forgive you and remember to give him time and it very possible he could like you too